I Want to Have Sex Like… a prologue
One of the biggest questions I had about demisexuality: how do you achieve sexual satisfaction? Do you wait until you’re deeply in love?
Labeling myself demisexual didn’t mean I didn’t want to have sex, or that there was a stop to some sort of pretense. Nor did it mean I went in search of a partner. It did change how I approached masturbation and sexual fantasy. It was a big boost in my level of sexual satisfaction, in fact, because I changed my search parameters. So I will be sharing some stuff that works for me.